Our First Swinger Event Part 2

So we’re sitting and chatting with the other young interracial couple (let’s call them Ice T & Coco). Ice T is a very down to earth guy pleasant guy. Coco is a little standoff ish, which I attribute to her look and the fact that being a stripper she probably has to deal with a lot of weirdo’s hitting on her. Nonetheless she was cordial to us and the four of us made light conversations. As the night winded down and the play rooms cleared we mutually expressed feelings of taking things further. By this point I was tipsy, not fall down drunk but pass buzz, so I’ll try to recollect things as best as possible.

I’m not entirely sure how but I ended up in one room alone with Coco, and Ice T in another with Scarlett. I was somewhat nervous, this being my first time in a situation like this. Nonetheless we began making out and fell to the bed together. I remember constantly asking her if she’s comfortable and if she’s Ok since earlier the swinger vets were giving us advice on making sure everything was consensual. Thinking back I’m palming my face in embarrassment for taking that advice so literally. Imagine me asking permission for each little step I took.  For example “Is it okay if I take off your bra,” “Do you mind if I kiss your nipples” and so on and so on. How erotic huh? Not quite. Anyway despite my best effort of killing the mood the touching and kissing progressed.

We both got naked and I spread her legs and buried my face in her crotch. She was waxed and had two stars tattooed on her cervix which I found very sexy. She moaned slightly and after a few minutes nudged me up, indicating that she was ready for the full action. There was just one problem however, I wasn’t hard. The combination of the liquor and jitters had my little man placid. This was the first time this has ever happened to me and I panicked, which only exasperate the situation as you need to be relaxed for an erection. So I tried to be slick and returned to eating her out. She seemed like she enjoyed it but again she nudged me up and started grinding her hip, a clear indication that she’s ready to be fucked. Unfortunately it was still a no go. So I got off her and took my time going to the condoms, hoping that in meantime that I can get Ty Jr up and ready by the time I got to bed. As I walked to the condoms I was stroking my dick feverously, cursing it under my breath for being unresponsive at this critical moment.

Condom in hand I made my way back to her, laid on top of her, and try to put the condom on. Putting a condom on a soft dick is no easy task and after some fail attempt I managed to do so. By this time I’m assuming that she noticed something must be wrong but I try to masked it by kissing her as I stroke myself some more. Finally she said “I’m glad you keep checking to make sure I’m okay but right now I just want you to fuck me hard.”  So this was it, no more stalling or delays, it was the moment of truth. I thought back to every favorite porn scene and manage to work myself to a half mass. But when I went to put it in, the wind died and so did my sail. At this point I was completely embarrassed and after some more fail attempts it was apparent that it just wasn’t going to be my night. Sometime after Jackie knocked on the door to tell us the party was over.

Ice T and Scarlett had not come out of their room yet and I had to wait for a few minutes with a sexually frustrated Coco as Ice T finish pounding my girl. Talk about feeling emasculated. When all was said and done we exchanged pleasantries and numbers and went our separate ways.

Despite the embarrassment of coming up short with coco a lot of positives came out at the party. That being our first event it introduced us to the lifestyle.  Also some of the experienced couples referred us to lifestylounge.com which we later joined and were able to have more adventures.

We did in fact run into Ice T and Coco at an event about a year later. Ice T really liked the experience with Scarlett since she loves anal while Coco does not. He would write us occasionally but it was clear that Coco was not interested in a do-over so Scarlett and I never took him up on the offer.

So that was our introduction to the swinging world. It’s embarrassing, but hey what’s the point of writing a blog if I don’t honestly recount both the good and bad. The softie situation happened one other time about a year later which I’m sure I will also share with you.

BTW any comments, questions, don’t hesitate to write.